I don’t know where or when they met but telegrams show that
Betty Connery and Don Hansen began dating about 1938 or early in 1939. By mid 1939 the telegrams were being sent to
Betty at her workplace. At the time
Betty was working at the Metropolitan Sanitary District for the City of
Chicago. Courting included shows, dinners, horseback riding, football games,
and probably, some concerts. There were
corsages for dinner, and flowers delivered to the office before a date. Don was working in the iron construction
industry. He worked for the L P
Friestedt Company based in Chicago. Although based in Chicago, in 1941 the
company was working on the war effort in Atlanta. There were a series of buildings to be built
during 1941 and 1942. Workers doing iron
work were well paid. In one letter Don
mentions that his pay that week would be $80.
That sum in today’s dollars would have a buying power of $1312.01. A series of letters written by Don in
Atlanta, to Betty in Chicago, show that they were planning to move to Atlanta
after their wedding in Chicago. The
letters speak of Don’s work in Atlanta, and his search for an area to consider
as a place to live. They also reveal his
deep love for Betty and desire to provide her with the very best of everything.
The marriage took place on 28 June 1941 at St Mel Catholic
Church in Chicago. It was a fairly large wedding with four bridesmaids, and two
junior bridesmaids Mary Alice Hardie, , Betty’s niece and Maureen Murray, 5, Don’s niece. I don’t know what color the dresses were but
the were pastel, long gowns. The bridesmaids wore little has that resembled the
hats with wings worn by Dutch girls. If
I had to guess I would say they were probably light blue. After the Nuptial Mass the wedding breakfast
was held in the Edgewater Beach Hotel near the Chicago lakefront. Ironically the Edgewater Beach was built by
two brothers John Tobin Connery and
James Connery, no relation to my Connerys.
After the ceremonies were over Betty donned a lavender
sharkskin suit for traveling and they left Chicago for a new life in Atlanta
with stops in Chattanooga and Lookout Mountain along. A visit to Idle Hour Farm in Lexington
Kentucky was also on their agenda for a little horseback riding on the prize
horsed. En route to Atlanta they
experienced a car fire in their trunk and suffered the loss of some of their
wedding gifts.
After Atlanta work took Don to Michigan and Wisconsin as for
several years he followed the jobs in iron work around the mid-west. Eventually Don left iron work behind and
joined his father-in-law’s company as a realtor. Betty and Don had returned to the Chicago
area to raise their family.
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